Answering an age-old question: What to get grandpa?
Holiday tips and gifts for seniors
By Lori Solomon Special to The Acorn

If you have older relatives and friends and you just don’t know what to give them, you’re not alone.

Many seniors have made or are in the midst of life changes. Perhaps they have downsized to smaller living quarters or moved to a retirement, assisted living or skilled nursing facility.

As a result, most seniors don’t want to receive more “things.” Their adult children and friends are faced with the tough question of what to get someone who is trying to “unclutter” at this stage.

Instead of giving traditional gifts like a necktie or another doodad to dust, try giving creative, easily consumed gifts or services to make their lives easier. Use your knowledge about the person to tailor gifts that will be helpful to them.

Telephone cards, transportation tickets, coupon books for discount services or a donation to their favorite charity are appreciated. Personalized memory books, a framed picture of a loved one or themed gift baskets designed with the senior’s special interests in mind should be appreciated.

Subscriptions for magazines, large-print novels, decks of cards and favorite snacks are sure pleasers.

For those with health challenges such as poor eyesight or hearing, arthritis or other physical limitations, gifts such as amplified big button telephones, talking room thermometers, voice-activated light switches and specially adapted utensils with large grip handles are helpful suggestions.

Pampering services, such as a certificate for a manicure, massage or facial are thoughtful choices.

For seniors living in assisted living or nursing homes, the holidays can be a depressing, lonely time. They may have memories of better times in their past, especially those who have lost a spouse, have family members living far away or are estranged from their families.

Bring an old photograph album to refresh memories from long ago. Also, while visiting a relative in a facility, don’t forget their roommate or neighbors. Perhaps consider adopting a senior to brighten their holidays.

These individuals not only need recognition and a friendly visitor, but can always use personal care items or small pleasures. Most of all, be prepared to listen.

Invite your senior to a holiday gathering, so that they still feel they are a vital part of a celebration. Offer to bring wrapping paper and lend a hand in shopping for them to buy the holiday gifts they may have in mind. Remember the caregivers and staff at senior communities who faithfully care for your aging loved one. They deserve to be applauded for the hard work they do.

High on the wish list for many seniors is something that can’t be bought in a store, the one thing their families may find in short supply— time. Plan ahead to make the time, involve the senior and, above all, don’t let their limitations interfere with an enjoyable visit.

Lori Solomon is the founder and president of Accent on Seniors, a free, state-licensed senior living referral service for families and seniors.